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Before anyone begins therapy they have a right and obligation to find out
what and how their therapist thinks...
Where I find the greatest
satisfaction in working with families, couples and individuals is helping
them to communicate and find love and self respect against the backdrop of
their own personal histories and how they were parented. This in turn
leads to better parenting, stronger relationships and fuller richer lives
lived through love.
What I have found over the years is that the most difficult pain people
experience often occurs very early in life, before words. Throughout my
career, I began to search
for ways to make these early memories accessible. As those I worked with
did begin to heal I began to ask the question, "Why are we not aware of the
damage we are doing to children from their conception into their first
years." So much of this pain inflicted could be changed by education alone.
The problem seemed to be that our culture did not believe that children
could be influenced psychologically this early in life. And so my passion
for preventative psychology began. Through the creation of my counseling
center and lectures and eventually my book, Earthbabies, I have looked for
ways to offer a helping hand to new parents and their children. There is an international
organization that supports this philosophy, the Association of
Pre and Peri-natal Psychology and Health. You can contact them at
www.birthpsychology.com or
e-mail them at apppah@aol.com.
Along with marriage, family,
and relationship counseling, I have experience in working with adults who
have suffered early childhood trauma.
This therapy can be longer term and is a
journey of the soul. I am prepared to go with my clients on this journey
and have found that their spiritual connection, whatever that may be, is an
important part of this healing process.
I have seen the damage of abuse in all its forms. My greatest respect and
admiration goes to
those who have survived the unspeakable as children
are courageous enough to
remember and heal these experiences to discover the truth that they are
lovable.
In the
last few years, I have begun to bring together my love of horses with
healing. I have found that they have an amazing ability to touch the
human heart. If you are interested in learning more about this, follow
this link to my "Horses" page. |